DR. MICHAEL MAILAHN
Community Outreach & Family Meeting Facilitator
Dr. Michael Mailahn works with Elder Law of East Tennessee to provide Family Meeting Facilitation services for clients and their families facing difficult care-related decisions. He guides parties through stressful discussions, maintaining a respectful decorum to ensure all voices are heard and all ideas are considered. Michael has worked for the past 15 years for the State of Tennessee conducting complaint resolution, mediation, workplace harassment (Title VII) investigations, and conflict management trainings. In addition, he provides community mediation for troubled youth and their parents, conducts ombudsman oversight for elder residents in assisted living homes, and engages in public speaking, training, and consulting in the areas listed above. He is a Certified Ombudsman, a Tennessee Supreme Court ADR Rule 31 Mediator, and a Master Trainer of the Powerful Tools for Caregivers (for Adults with Chronic Conditions and Children with Special Needs) course. Along with the care coordinators at Elder Law of East Tennessee, Michael also teaches the Powerful Tools for Caregivers course offered periodically to ELET clients.
Parker Chiropractic College, Doctorate, 1997
ETHRA Elder Ombudsman Program
I developed a conflict management workshop for my department within state government and have presented it across the state. Since its introduction, the numbers of complaints received by my department have significantly declined.
As with my conflict work for the state, family mediation, and elder ombudsman work in the community, I find myself most helpful to ELET clients by guiding them through difficult decision making processes during family meetings. I facilitate structured conversations that largely consist of listening with a non-judgmental ear to everyone’s views. I listen actively, reframe, clarify, and model effective communication techniques with the goal of assuring all voices are heard and all ideas are entertained.
The families I help often consist of members who are all trying to do the right thing but who have different ideas about what is “right” or how to reach their goals. It is satisfying to help them reconcile their differences and watch them evolve from a state of conflict to one of cooperation.
I really like that ELET has a genuine family feel that seemingly brings out the best in everyone, such that clients are put at ease and find comfort quickly. Also, it is most gratifying to see clients develop healthy decision-making skills as a result of having taken advantage of learning opportunities (e.g., Powerful Tools for Caregivers) provided at ELET.
When not at work with the state, at the ELET office, engaging in community mediation work, performing ombudsman duties, or teaching the PTC classes, I can be found sitting with my eyes glued to college football or basketball games…or some other sport-related TV show.
I produced and hosted a talk show called SA Sports while attending college in San Antonio, Texas. I was also a Sunday morning DJ for a small radio station in Boerne, Texas, situated near the outskirts of San Antonio.